Testimonials

I wish I had found this group earlier. The support and camaraderie of the men who are all suffering from different types of fertility challenges is amazing to be a part of. There’s a lot of support for couples available, and naturally women feel more able to talk about these issues with family and friends. To have a dedicated space for men to share, and not feel isolated and alone is amazing

Learning about my azoospermia and Klinefelter diagnosis had me feeling very lonely and ashamed until I found other men with this condition. Support groups have been a lifeline, quite literally, as I was often depressed without a glimmer of hope prior. In these support groups, you realize the physical and mental health of men trumps everything else. It doesn’t matter your socioeconomic status, your politics, or religion, we are there for one another and navigate our lives together.

My fertility journey was incredibly long and isolating. Despite the unwavering support of my partner and parents, I often felt alone, misunderstood, and emotionally drained. While my wife found solace in open discussions about fertility issues, I struggled with feelings of vulnerability and embarrassment. It felt as though my identity and manliness had been stripped away, leaving me unsure of how to cope. After an unsuccessful operation, I received the devastating news that donor conception was our only option. It felt like my world had collapsed. I tried to put on a brave face, but inside, I was consumed by sadness and confusion. Then one evening, my wife mentioned an online support session featuring Shaun and Jenna, a couple sharing their own experiences with infertility. That session changed everything for me. Seeing their strength, honesty, and positivity in the face of challenges inspired me. They gave me hope and showed me that it was possible to find peace and acceptance, even in such a difficult situation. Their support, combined with following others like Ciaran on Instagram and joining a support group filled with men in similar positions, helped me turn a corner. The emotional support I’ve found in these groups, podcasts, and online communities has been life-changing. While I’m not completely “over it”—and perhaps never will be—the connection and shared understanding with others has made the journey feel less lonely. I’m forever grateful for the kindness and encouragement that has carried me through the hardest times. The impact of these communities is truly invaluable.

Navigating infertility, having the carpet pulled repeatedly from beneath us and living life in a state of constant limbo for multiple years led to numerous anxieties, depression, and loss of self. Finding community with other men in a judgement-free space built on shared experiences has been fundamental to helping me accept my new normal and come out the other side stronger. Knowing at any point that there are others who ‘get it’ who I can reach out to and will always lend an ear means the world and so I try to do the same when questions are asked that I might be able to shed some light on from my own experiences.